Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is Temptations NYC?
A: Temptations NYC is an on-premise, two-floor swinger club located in the Manhattan borough of NYC.

Q: How can we attend an event?
A: If this will be your first time attending, please submit a reservation for whichever event interests you. PLEASE read event details thoroughly BEFORE submitting a reservation. You will receive an email confirmation with details and exact location. If you are a single male, please be sure to choose an event that allows single males, as we also have events that are reserved for couples only. We respectfully ask that you not share the location with anyone.

Q: Can we attend an event without making a reservation?
A: Privacy and discretion of our location and guests are extremely important to us. Please be respectful of this. This is why we require reservations for first-time guests, and we do not allow walk-ins.

Q: Do you have a dress code?
A: Yes, our dress code is Dress-To-Impress. ABSOLUTELY NO gym attire, sweatpants, track suits, pajamas, slippers/flip flops, baseball hats, fitted hats, dew-rags or ripped jeans. We expect our guests to be nicely groomed and presentable. This is a swinger club; please put some effort into how you present yourself.

Q: What form of payments are accepted?
A: We accept only cash at the door when checking in. Payments are NOT made online. We have an ATM on-site if needed.

Q: Do you sell drinks and/or beer?
A: We are a BYOB establishment. We do not sell liquor. You can bring your own liquor, beer and wine. You must check in your bottle(s) at the bar with the bartender. You will be served your liquor throughout the night, and you can take your bottle(s) when you leave at the end of the night. We have Poland Spring water bottles and Red Bull for sale. We have a variety of juices and sodas available, free of charge.

Q: Are there lockers or coat check provided for my belongings?
A: Yes, we provide both. There are lockers available. You are welcome to bring your own lock. If not, we provide locks for a $10 deposit. We also provide coat check for $4 per item.

Q: Am I required to undress or partake in any activities?
A: No. You are NOT required to undress or partake in any activities at any point throughout the night. While some other swinger clubs have a requirement to undress, Temptations NYC does not. You can remain dressed throughout both levels of the club. You can also just observe and not participate if you choose to. There is no obligation to participate.

Q: What is your consent policy?
A: All our guests are expected to carry themselves in a respectful manner. We strive to create a comfortable space for people to explore their sexuality. NO MEANS NO. MAYBE MEANS NO. If a guest is being pushy with their date or another guest, they will be removed. If a guest gropes or touches another guest without permission, they will be removed. We do not tolerate any form of coercion, intimidation, or sexual harassment. Other guests playing out in the open or being nude does NOT give any other guest the right to touch them.

Q: Do you provide contraceptives, or do we bring our own?
A: Yes, we provide condoms that are readily available in every private room and play area. If you need female condoms, dental dams or towels, please ask the floor attendant.

Q: Can I attend a couples-only event as a single male? Can I pay extra to do so?
A: No, you cannot. Our couples-only events are for COUPLES and SINGLE WOMEN ONLY. Couples attend our couples-only events to meet other couples or women.

Q: We are a couple but are in a relationship with a male. Can he come along with us on a couples-only event?
A: Sorry, no. For ratio and pricing purposes, we recognize a couple as two individuals; one female and one male. Every male must have a female date on couples-only nights.

Q: We are a couple but are in a relationship with a female. Can she come along with us on a couples-only event?
A: Yes. Women are allowed to attend our couples-only events.

Q: Is the club wheelchair-accessible?
A: Yes, we have an elevator in the building. Should you need any assistance while at the venue, simply ask a staff member.

Q: Are there showers available?
A: No, we do not have showers.

Q: Is there food available? If not, can we bring food into the club?
A: We have complimentary snacks available at the bar. A hot-food buffet is available only on select nights and special occasions. Sorry, we do not allow food to be brought from outside.

Q: Is there an area for smokers?
A: Yes. We have a separate smoking room for those who smoke cigarettes, cigars and cannabis. We also sell hookah on select nights.

Q: Is there a DJ playing every night?
A: We have a DJ on select nights and special occasions.

Q: Why do I see other events on the website that are not swinger events?
A: Due to Temptations impeccable reputation and size, our venue has become a popular space to numerous promoters that want to host their own events, which includes swinger and non-swinger events. We post these promoters events on our site to provide other kinds of parties for our guests. For example, events named DarkSide and IMPACT are hosted by promoters from the BDSM/Kink industry. Please inquire with each promoter about their rates, rules, and dress codes. If you are not interested in these events, simply look for our swinger events on other nights.

Q: Is there a refund policy?
A: No. Whether other guests or the event itself is not to your liking, we do not give any refunds for any reason.

If we did not address any questions you might have in this FAQ, please contact us or call us after 9pm, Wednesday – Sunday.